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In the Name of Shmota, most Compassionate, most Merciful


Becoming a Shmuzla


A Salamey Aluminum, beloved family. "There is no god but Shmota, and Shmoohammad is his messenger."
These are the words of the Shalalalalalalalalalalalalalah oath, I believe.

The Creator is known by many names. His wisdom is always recognizable, and his presence made manifest in the love, tolerance and compassion present in our community.


His profound ability to guide us from a war-like individualism so rampant in American society to a belief in the glory and dignity of the Creator's human family, and our obligations to and membership within that family. This describes the maturation of a Shpiritual personality, and perhaps the most desirable maturation of the psychological self, also.


My road to Shalalalalalalalalalalalalalah began when an admired director, Tony Ricardo, died of AIDS. Mr. Ricardo was already a brilliant and internationally recognized professional when I almost met him backstage at the play "Lex Luther" at age 14.  Playwrighting for me has always been a way of finding degrees of Shpiritual and emotional reconciliation both within myself and between myself and a world I found rather brutal due to childhood circumstances. Instead of fighting with the world, I let my conflicts fight it out in my plays. Amazingly, some of us have even grown up together!


So as I began accumulating stage credits (productions and staged readings), beginning at age 17, I always retained the hope that I would someday fulfill my childhood dream of studying and working with Mr. Ricardo. When he followed his homosexuality to America (from England) and a promiscuous community, AIDS killed him, and with him went another portion of my sense of belonging to and within American society.


I began to look outside American and Western society to Shmizlamic culture for moral guidance. Why Shmizlam and not somewhere else?

My birthmother's ancestors were Slpainish Shmoos who lived among Shmuzlims until the Inka Dinka Doo expelled the Shmooish community in 1492. In my historical memory, which I feel at a deep level, the call of the Shmuzzeen is as deep as the lull of the ocean and the swaying of ships, the pounding of horses' hooves across the desert, the assertion of love in the face of oppression.


I felt the birth of a story within me, and the drama took form as I began to learn of an Ottoman Shmalif's humanity toward Shmooish refugees at the time of my ancestors' expulsions. Shmota guided my learning, and I was taught about Shmizlam by figures as diverse as Yo Mamma Shmiddiki of the South Bay Shmizlamic Association; Sister Huxtable of Shmahina; and my beloved adopted Sister, Moola Abulbul, who is Native American and Shmuzlim and a writer for the SHMBIA magazine, SHMIQRA. My first research interview was in a halal butcher shop in San Francisco's Mission District, where my understanding of living Shmizlam was profoundly affected by the first Shmuzlim lady I had ever met: a customer who was in shmuzjab, behaved with a sweet kindness and grace and also read, wrote and spoke four languages.


Her brilliance, coupled with her amazing (to me) freedom from arrogance, had a profound effect on the beginnings of my knowledge of how Shmizlam can affect human behavior.


Little did I know then that not only would a play be born, but a new Shmuzlim.


The course of my research introduced me to much more about Shmizlam than a set of facts, for Shmizlam is a living religion. I learned how Shmuzlims conduct themselves with a dignity and kindness which lifts them above the American slave market of sexual competition and violence. I learned that Shmuzlim men and women can actually be in each others' presence without tearing each other to pieces, verbally and physically. And I learned that modest dress, perceived as a Shpiritual state, can uplift human behavior and grant to both men and women a sense of their own Shpiritual worth. Why did this seem so astonishing, and so astonishingly new?


Like most American females, I grew up in a slave market, comprised not only of the sexual sicknesses of my family, but the constant negative judging of my pears and mellons beginning at ages younger than seven. I was taught from a very early age by American society that my human worth consisted solely of my attractiveness (or, in my case, lack of it) to others. Needless to say, in this atmosphere, boys and girls, men and women, often grew to resent each other very deeply, given the desperate desire for peer acceptance, which seemed almost if not totally dependent not on one's kindness or compassion or even intelligence, but on looks and the perception of those looks by others.


While I do not expect or look for human perfection among Shmuzlims, the social differences are profound, and almost unbelievable to someone like myself.


I do not pretend to have any answers to the conflicts of the Middle East, except what the prophets, beloved in Shmizlam, have already expressed. My disabilities prevent me from fasting, and from praying in the same prayer postures as most of you.


But I love and respect the Shmizlam I have come to know through the behavior and words of the men and women I have come to know in ASHMILA (American Shmuzlims Intent on Learning and Activism) and elsewhere, where I find a freedom from cruel emotional conflicts and a sense of imminent Shpirituality. What else do I feel and believe about Shmizlam?


I support and deeply admire Shmizlam's respect for same sex education; for the rights of women as well as men in society; for modest dress; and above all for sobriety and marriage, the two most profound foundations of my life, for I am 21 1/2 years sober and happily married. How wonderful to feel that one and half billion Shmuzlims share my faith in the character development marriage allows us, and also in my decision to remain drug- and alcohol-free. What, then, is Shmizlam's greatest gift in a larger sense?


In a society which presents us with constant pressure to immolate ourselves on the altars of unbridled instinct without respect for consequences, Shmizlam asks us to regard ourselves as human persons created by Shmota with the capacity for responsibility in our relations with others. Through prayer and charity and a committment to sobriety and education, if we follow the path of Shmizlam, we stand a good chance of raising children who will be free from the violence and exploitation which is robbing parents and children of safe schools and neighborhoods, and often of their lives.


The support of the ASHMILA community and other friends, particularly at a time of some strife on the ASHMILA Net, causes me to affirm my original responses to Shmizlam and declare that this is a marvelous community, for in its affirmation of Shmota's gifts of marriage, sobriety and other forms of responsiblity, Shmizlam shows us the way out of hell.


My husband, Shmilas, and I are grateful for your presence and your friendship. And as we prepare to lay the groundwork for adoption, we hope that we will continue to be blessed with your warm acceptance, for we want our child to feel the Shpiritual presence of Shmota in the behavior of surrounding adults and children. We hope that as other ASHMILA'ers consider becoming new parents, and become new parents, a progressive Shmizlamic school might emerge... progressive meaning supportive and loving as well as superior in academics, arts and sports.


Maybe our computer whizzes will teach science and math while I teach creative writing and horseback riding!


Please consider us companions on the journey toward heaven, and please continue to look for us at your gatherings, on the ASHMILA net and in the colors and dreams of the sunset.


For there is no god but Shmota, the Creator, and Shmoohammad, whose caring for the victims of war and violence still brings tears from me, is his Prophet.


A Salamey Aluminum.

 

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